Quite often a person feels the need to lie about something - if you are the person being lied to, there are a few simple tips for catching the liar out.
This is a list of the top 15 tips.
有些時(shí)候,人會(huì)覺(jué)得需要撒謊--如果你是被騙的那方,下面就教你幾招來(lái)揪出騙子。
Tips 1 - 5
招數(shù):1-5
1. Physical expression will be limited and stiff, with few arm and hand movements. Hand, arm and leg movements are toward their own body as the liar tries to take up less space.
1. 肢體語(yǔ)言很拘束,僵硬,手臂和手不怎么動(dòng)。手、手臂和腿的移動(dòng)都靠向自己的身體,因?yàn)槿鲋e者設(shè)法占據(jù)更少的空間。
2. A person who is lying to you will avoid making eye contact.
2. 騙你的人通常會(huì)避免和你眼神接觸。
3. Hands touching their face, throat & mouth. Touching or scratching the nose or behind their ear. Not likely to touch his chest/heart with an open hand.
3. 手觸碰自己的臉、喉嚨和嘴巴。碰或抓鼻子或耳后。他們不太可能去碰自己的胸膛/心臟。
4. Timing is off between emotions gestures/expressions and words. Example: Someone says, “I love it!” when receiving a gift and then smiles after making that statement, rather then at the same time the statement is made.
4. 手勢(shì)/表情和說(shuō)話(huà)的時(shí)機(jī)不對(duì)。例如:某人在收到禮物后說(shuō):“我喜歡這個(gè)!”,之后再露出笑容,而不是在說(shuō)話(huà)的同時(shí)露出微笑。
5. Gestures/expressions don't match the verbalstatement, such as frowning when saying “I love you.”
5. 手勢(shì)/表情和嘴上說(shuō)的不匹配,例如說(shuō):“我愛(ài)你”的時(shí)候皺著眉頭。
Tips 6 - 10
招數(shù)6-10
6. Expressions are limited to mouth movements when someone is faking emotions (like happy, surprised, sad, awe, ) instead of the whole face. For example; when someone smiles naturally their whole face is involved: jaw/cheek movement, eyes and forehead push down, etc.
6. 當(dāng)一個(gè)人撒謊時(shí),他的面部表情會(huì)局限在嘴巴處(像高興、欣喜、悲傷和敬畏),而不是整張臉。例如,當(dāng)一個(gè)人自然微笑時(shí),整張臉都會(huì)有反應(yīng):下巴/臉頰會(huì)動(dòng),眼睛和前額會(huì)向下等。
7. A guilty person gets defensive. An innocent person will often go on the offensive.
7. 一個(gè)罪犯會(huì)選擇自衛(wèi),而一個(gè)無(wú)辜的人通常會(huì)選擇反擊。
8. A liar is uncomfortable facing his questioner/accuser and may turn his head or body away.
8. 撒謊者面對(duì)發(fā)問(wèn)者/原告會(huì)不安,他可能會(huì)將頭或身體轉(zhuǎn)向一邊。
9. A liar might unconsciously place objects (book, coffee cup, etc.) between themselves and you.
9. 撒謊者可能會(huì)下意識(shí)的放一樣?xùn)|西(書(shū)、咖啡杯等)在他們和你之間。
10. A liar will use your words to make answer a question. When asked, “Did you eat the last cookie?” The liar answers, “No, I did not eat the last cookie.”
10. 撒謊者會(huì)用你的話(huà)來(lái)回答問(wèn)題。當(dāng)被問(wèn)到:“你吃了最后那塊曲奇了嗎?”撒謊者會(huì)說(shuō):“沒(méi)有,我沒(méi)有吃最后那塊曲奇。”
Tips 11 - 15
招數(shù)11-15
11. A statement with a contractionis more likely to be truthful:"I didn't do it" instead of "I did not do it".
11. 使用縮寫(xiě)式來(lái)陳述似乎更值得信任:"我沒(méi)做過(guò)"而不是"我沒(méi)有這么做過(guò)"。
12. Liars sometimes avoid "lying" by not making direct statements. They implyanswers instead of denying something directly.
12. 撒謊者有時(shí)候利用不直接回答來(lái)避免"撒謊"。他們不直接否認(rèn)什么,而是將答案暗示出來(lái)。
13. The guilty person may speak more than natural, adding unnecessary details to convince you… they are not comfortable with silence or pauses in the conversation.
13. 罪犯可能會(huì)比平時(shí)說(shuō)的更多,添加更多不必要的細(xì)節(jié)來(lái)說(shuō)服你……他們會(huì)因?yàn)閷?duì)話(huà)中的沉默或停頓而不安。
14. A liar may leave out pronouns and speak in a monotonoustone. When a truthful statement is made the pronoun is emphasized as much or more than the rest of the words in a statement.
14. 撒謊者會(huì)省去代名詞,并且以一個(gè)音調(diào)說(shuō)話(huà)。當(dāng)說(shuō)實(shí)話(huà)時(shí),人們會(huì)使用不少代名詞,并且這些詞會(huì)發(fā)重音。
15. Words may be garbled and spoken softly, and syntaxand grammar may be off. In other-words, his sentences will likely be muddled rather than emphasized.
15. 撒謊者可能用詞混淆,聲音放輕,句子的結(jié)構(gòu)和語(yǔ)法也會(huì)很混亂。換句話(huà)說(shuō),他的句子亂七八糟,也沒(méi)有什么要強(qiáng)調(diào)的重點(diǎn)。