Child care centres are often as good for the parents as for the youngsters when it comes to making friends and building a support network, according to a U.S. study.

    Researchers from the University of Chicago found that many child care centers have an overlooked function -- connecting parents with each other as informal advisers in child rearing, and with agencies that help with the challenges of parenting.

    "Parents come to school to find someone to care for their children, and they end up learning ways of taking care of each other," said researcher Mario Small, professor in sociology, in a statement.

    "When you are a parent, particularly a first-time parent, the best resource you have is another parent."

    The study of 3,500 mothers in 20 U.S. cities found that child care centers become locations where parents can build "social capital" -- the contacts they need to help with concerns such as a child's development and finding good health care and schools.

    Mothers in particular build up their network by working together on fundraising activities and going on field trips, leading to friendships in which they advise each other on a child's health or help each out when there is an emergency.

    The research showed benefits for all parents, regardless of their financial status.

    The study found mothers with children in child care centers had at least one more good friend than other mothers.

    Mothers who were financially better off and who made friends at day care centers were nearly 60 percent less likely to be depressed than those who did not make friends.

    The researchers also studied 300 day care centres in New York to conclude that parents' networks were particularly strong at child care centres that organized parties involving parents and had strict pick-up and drop-off times where parents met regularly.

    "What we found was that often the most useful friends, completely unexpected valuable contacts, come from people we meet when we have volunteered, in the case of these parents, who assisted in a field trip or helped raise funds," said Small.

    根據(jù)美國(guó)一項(xiàng)調(diào)查發(fā)現(xiàn)，在幼兒保健所不僅能幫助寶寶找到它的朋友，也能幫助父母建立可靠的人際關(guān)系網(wǎng)。芝加哥大學(xué)的研究人員發(fā)現(xiàn)，在幼兒保健所存在著人們常常忽略的一個(gè)用途--結(jié)交不同的父母以便于互相交流育兒的經(jīng)驗(yàn)，在這種機(jī)構(gòu)的幫助下能解決很多關(guān)于育兒的難題。社會(huì)學(xué)教授Mario Small在一份報(bào)告中也表明，父母來(lái)到托兒所僅僅是尋找那些能夠看護(hù)他們孩子的保育人員而忽視了互相結(jié)交的機(jī)會(huì)。"如果當(dāng)你是父母，尤其是那些第一次做父母的人，那些別的父母?jìng)儗��?huì)是你最好的資源。"對(duì)美國(guó)20個(gè)城市3500個(gè)母親的調(diào)查發(fā)現(xiàn)，兒童保健中心是父母能夠建立他們的社會(huì)資本的地方，所有的接觸能夠很好地幫助他們解決有關(guān)兒童發(fā)展和尋求好的護(hù)理中心及學(xué)校的問(wèn)題。特別是那些在籌資活動(dòng)和戶外教學(xué)活動(dòng)共同工作時(shí)建立人際關(guān)系的母親，尤其能夠相互交流兒童保健問(wèn)題或緊急情況下互相幫助。這個(gè)調(diào)查顯示了那些對(duì)于所有父母?jìng)儊?lái)說(shuō)的益處，不用顧及個(gè)人的財(cái)政力量。還有那些和孩子在保育中心的母親至少比別的母親多一個(gè)有利的伙伴。那些經(jīng)濟(jì)狀況良好以及能在保育中心建立人際的母親相比那些沒(méi)有建立人脈的母親會(huì)低百分之六十的狀況出現(xiàn)手足無(wú)措的情況。這個(gè)研究同樣對(duì)300所紐約的日保育中心所做的發(fā)現(xiàn)得出結(jié)論，說(shuō)父母在兒童看護(hù)中心所建立的人際關(guān)系會(huì)比那些在那些中心所組織的派對(duì)上所刻意結(jié)識(shí)并且定期聯(lián)系的人際所表現(xiàn)得更牢靠與穩(wěn)固。

    最后Small教授說(shuō)"那些最有價(jià)值的伙伴往往是在義務(wù)募捐集資或者戶外教學(xué)時(shí)完全不經(jīng)意結(jié)識(shí)的。"