1. Start each day with a kiss--I think this one is not that hard; on the contrary; it can be healthy and nice.

用一個(gè)吻迎接新的一天。接吻如此簡(jiǎn)單，卻能令人身心愉悅。

2. Date once a week--May not as often as once a week, let's say every other week or that a date can be inside your home and that you don't have to go somewhere fancy to have it, you get the idea, right?

一周約會(huì)一次。也不必非得一周一次，也可以?xún)芍芤淮�。而且約會(huì)的地點(diǎn)可以在家中，不必非去什么特別的地方。你是不是明白了？有心就好。

3. Accept differences--No one is perfect. However; healthy arguments are good for the relationship, hence; the most important thing would be learning how to compromise with one another.

接受彼此的不同，因?yàn)槿藷o(wú)完人。適度的爭(zhēng)論可以增進(jìn)雙方的關(guān)系，但重要的是要在爭(zhēng)論中懂得妥協(xié)。

4. Be polite--Please, thank you, you are welcome… these are not only meant for strangers; your own spouse and family should come first and you must always use these phrases inside your home.

多用禮貌用語(yǔ)。請(qǐng)、謝謝、不客氣這些話不只要說(shuō)給陌生人聽(tīng)，更要說(shuō)給你的伴侶和家人聽(tīng)。在家里要記得多用這些客氣話。

5. Be gentle--a person is supposed to be the closest to his/her spouse, being gentle is crucial to keep them close enough.

溫柔一些——若想關(guān)系親密，溫柔是至關(guān)重要的。

6. Give gifts--nice small gifts are appreciated every once in a while.

給對(duì)方送禮物——偶爾送些甜蜜小禮物，就能令對(duì)方感激不盡。

7. Touch--intimacy between married people is very important and touching is a means of communication that reflects closeness, connection and love; it is your way of keeping the spark alive.

撫觸——情侶間的撫觸非常重要，它可以增進(jìn)情感，傳達(dá)愛(ài)意。它是情感交流的一種方式，它可以讓愛(ài)的火花常燃不熄。

8. Talk about dreams--dreams of the future that is; if you don't share your dreams with your spouse; then who?

談?wù)搲?mèng)想——說(shuō)說(shuō)對(duì)未來(lái)的憧憬。試想，若不和伴侶分享你的夢(mèng)想，那么還能同誰(shuí)講呢？

9. Select a song that can be "our song" —— this sounds like a cliché, but it can be nice, don't you think?

選一首歌作為“你倆的歌”——聽(tīng)起來(lái)有點(diǎn)老套，但是不是很美妙？

10. Laugh together--laughter is medicine. When you share good laughs together; the fun grows in the relationship and you grow closer and stronger every day.

一起開(kāi)懷大笑——笑是良藥。當(dāng)你倆一起開(kāi)懷的時(shí)候，你們的關(guān)系也會(huì)伴隨著笑聲一天天地親近和堅(jiān)固起來(lái)。

11. Send a card for no reason--another cliché? Maybe, but everyone likes to receive a nice "I love you" or "I miss you" notes every once in a while.

沒(méi)什么緣由地送張卡片——又很老套嗎？不過(guò)誰(shuí)不喜歡時(shí)不時(shí)地收到些“我愛(ài)你”，“我想你”之類(lèi)的卡片呢？

12. Listen--this could be the most important one ever, but note that you should listen with empathy and not just hear what they are saying; you should get involved.

聆聽(tīng)——這非常重要，但注意聆聽(tīng)的時(shí)候你應(yīng)該全情投入并參與其中，而不僅僅只是聽(tīng)到了對(duì)方說(shuō)的話。

13. Encourage--positive support and being there for one another is also very important; seek their support and give them yours and be generous!

鼓勵(lì)——彼此支持是非常重要的。向?qū)Ψ綄で笾С植⒖犊�地給予對(duì)方支持！

14. Do it his or her way--sometimes; you need to do things their way just to show how much you love them and respect their feelings.

按照對(duì)方喜歡的方式行事——有時(shí)候，你可以按照對(duì)方喜歡的方式行事，并以此來(lái)傳達(dá)你對(duì)伴侶的愛(ài)戀和尊重。

15. Know his or her needs--what good is a spouse if he/she does not know the needs of their significant others? This should be your primary concern!

知道對(duì)方的需求——如果不知道另一半的需要，那還算什么好伴侶？這一點(diǎn)是首先需要留心的。

16. Compliment twice a day--everyone likes to hear something nice as a compliment; so give them that when it is due.

每天互相恭維兩次——人人都愛(ài)聽(tīng)恭維話，所以在適當(dāng)?shù)臅r(shí)候說(shuō)些好話。

17. Call during the day--but don't over do it and be obsessed with calling him/her. Give them their space but also show them that you think of them by a 2-minutes phone call saying "how are you doing?"

打通電話——不要總是給對(duì)方打電話。給他們一些空間的同時(shí)，打個(gè)簡(jiǎn)短的問(wèn)候電話，讓他們了解你的惦念。

18. Cuddle--yes; intimacy is very important and reflects love and deep feelings.

擁抱——是的，親昵的行為可以傳達(dá)愛(ài)意，增進(jìn)情感。

19. Show respect--showing respect is more important than showing love.

尊重對(duì)方——顯示你的尊重比表達(dá)愛(ài)意更加重要。

20. Welcome the other person home--show enthusiasm when they come home and greet them; this means that you are happy because they are home now and that you were waiting for them!

歡迎另一半回家——熱情地歡迎你的伴侶回家。讓他們感受到你的期盼和你的快樂(lè)。

21. Celebrate birthdays in a big way--this does not mean a big party; just show them you care about their personal occasions.

隆重慶生——并不是說(shuō)你要為對(duì)方的生日大操大辦，而是說(shuō)你要傳遞出你很重視這個(gè)特別日子的信息。

22. Forgive--from the heart and not only in words.

寬恕——自心底而不是嘴上說(shuō)聲原諒。

23. Set up a romantic getaway--this sounds like fun every once in a while; no harm in that!

策劃一次浪漫出游——時(shí)不時(shí)搞一次，其樂(lè)無(wú)窮，完全沒(méi)有副作用！

24. Respond quickly to the other person's request--show them that you are doing this because you care for them the most.

快速響應(yīng)對(duì)方的需求——這樣做就是為了顯示你有多么在意對(duì)方。

25. Treat each others' friends and relatives with courtesy--even if you don't like their family and/or friends, you treat them with respect and courtesy for the sake of your spouse; they deserve that much.

善待對(duì)方的朋友和親屬——即便你不喜歡伴侶的朋友和親屬，為了你的伴侶，你也要善待他們。

26. Admit when wrong--don't be too arrogant to say it.

有錯(cuò)的時(shí)候認(rèn)錯(cuò)——不要自負(fù)到拒絕認(rèn)錯(cuò)。

27. End the day with a hug--show closeness and again; intimacy.

用擁抱結(jié)束一天的生活——再次用親昵的行為表達(dá)親密的關(guān)系。