Hey! It's going to be Mother's day again. Have you planned something good for your Mama? If not, try even one of these tips.
Make Your Mama Proud
What special talents do you have? Maybe this is the right time to show it to her. She would be very proud and surprised if she'd realized that you have something that she doesn't expect.
What's Her Favorite?
Most teens don't what their mama's favorite. You do? Then, what are you waiting for buy her some of her favorite stuff and put a little twist on it. Make it more special.
The best time to give her that is while she is sleeping at night. Put it on the drawer next to her so that when she wakes up she'll be surprised to see it. And, maybe, a little tear may fall down from her cheeks.
The Memories
Our mothers have special memories in mind. Those are the times that they gave birth to their healthy baby. How about you? What's your best moment with her? Maybe you can tell her about the time she got mad at you because you did something that you thought is right but since that day forward you realized your mistakes. Or, you can tell her how happy you are when she was there during your painful days in your life.
Be Her
What does she look like if she is so exhausted and angry and tired? What does she do for your family? This is the right time to show her the things that she usually does at home. Try to imitate her voice when she is angry. Make your face as if you are her when she is mad.
Treat a Queen
Your house is a palace with a king and queen (it doesn't matter if you're rich or poor). Our mother is the real queen in our life and in our family though her duties make her look like she is not. Give the lady a day off by being a servant to her.
Make-Over Beauty
Because of stress and the problems that she is facing right now, especially in the family, admit it! She doesn't look great anymore. Most mothers are not into trends anymore because their focusing on us.
Perhaps you could take some of your savings to treat her in a salon or the department store. Then, choose nice clothes that would make her look GLAMOROUS!
Have Some of Your Time
It's the cheapest but a meaningful way. Most of us are busy from our work, friends, boy/girl friends, school. We stay home late and after several hours, we go out again.
Have you ever had a meaningful time with your mother where you don't think or talk about problems and arguments? Have you ever tell her how much you thank her from the life she gave to you, the time she took care of you, and for every suffering she'd felt for you? Have you ever tell her that you love her?
Life is short. We don't know what will happen tomorrow nor today. Those three words can make her heart jump for joy, you know? Just tell her “I love you!” and it would make her smile so sweetly. Just try! We don't wanna miss a thing, right?
讓媽媽為之自豪
你有什么特長(zhǎng)或才能?可能這是向她展示的好時(shí)機(jī)。如果她意識(shí)到你有出人意料的才能,她會(huì)感到十分自豪和驚喜。
她最喜歡什么?
大多數(shù)青少年都不知道媽媽喜歡什么,你知道嗎?那么你還等什么,給她買(mǎi)樣心儀的禮物,然后自己包裝一下,看上去會(huì)特別有心意。
送出禮物的最好時(shí)間,是她晚上睡著的時(shí)候。放在她身邊的抽屜里,這樣當(dāng)她醒來(lái)就能驚喜地發(fā)現(xiàn)它。或許,她會(huì)感動(dòng)得熱淚盈眶。
回憶
我們的母親心里總有特別的回憶。那就是孩子健康出生的那一刻。那你呢?什么時(shí)候是你和媽媽之間的難忘一刻?可能你會(huì)告訴她你犯錯(cuò)她發(fā)火的時(shí)候,因?yàn)槟阌X(jué)得自己做得沒(méi)錯(cuò),事后才發(fā)現(xiàn)自己犯錯(cuò)了。或者你告訴她你傷心的時(shí)候她陪在身邊,讓你感到多么幸福。
模仿她
當(dāng)媽媽筋疲力竭或者火冒三丈的時(shí)候,她看上去是怎樣?她為家庭付出些什么?是時(shí)候讓她知道她在家中通常都做些什么。試試模仿她生氣的聲音。模仿她發(fā)怒的表情。
當(dāng)作“皇后”
無(wú)論貧窮還是富有,每個(gè)家里都有一個(gè)國(guó)王,一個(gè)皇后。母親是這個(gè)家也是生活中真正的皇后,即便她的母親之責(zé)讓她看起來(lái)不怎么像。那就放她一天假,把她當(dāng)皇后服侍吧。
重塑美貌
壓力過(guò)大,她正變得不再美麗,尤其在家里,不得不承認(rèn)這個(gè)問(wèn)題。她看上去不如從前漂亮了。大多數(shù)母親都只管照顧我們不再打扮時(shí)髦。
我們或許可以拿出一部分積蓄,請(qǐng)她去美容沙龍或者去百貨公司購(gòu)物。為她挑件漂亮的衣服,讓她看起來(lái)光彩照人!
花些時(shí)間陪伴
這個(gè)方法最省錢(qián),也最有意義。我們中大多數(shù)人都忙于工作學(xué)習(xí),朋友聚會(huì),或者談戀愛(ài)。就算在家,也就待幾個(gè)小時(shí),然后又出門(mén)了。
你有沒(méi)有好好陪陪母親,不再想著或者談?wù)搯?wèn)題和爭(zhēng)執(zhí)?你有沒(méi)有告訴過(guò)她,你感激她賦予你生命,花時(shí)間照顧你,為你受盡苦痛?你有沒(méi)有告訴過(guò)她,你愛(ài)她?
生命短暫,時(shí)光匆匆,我們無(wú)法預(yù)知明天發(fā)生什么。知道嗎?簡(jiǎn)單的三個(gè)字就能讓她心花怒放?告訴她,“我愛(ài)你!”她聽(tīng)了一定會(huì)喜笑顏開(kāi)。試試吧!我們不想錯(cuò)過(guò)這一切,難道不是嗎?